Day 13: UnCONDITIONal

All forms of love come with conditions and terms to be agreed upon amongst those involved. If someone says that their love is without conditions, that is a lie!

Rightfully so there are expectations that people have in those who they trust to hand over the key to their heart. For me, the conditions of my love is simple, honesty. The people that I choose to give my heart to agree to be totally honest with me in all situations even if the true is too unbearable to hear. That's a tall order but its what I deserve and what I give back in return.

I think people get in trouble by putting unrealistic conditions, that they cannot even reach, onto others. That's totally unfair and leaves the recipient of their love at a disadvantage and they eventually give up on trying to (unsuccessfully) fulfill that role. For example, you cannot expect this man to love you with your condition of putting up with your antics of unrelentling demands if you can't return the favor when he asks you to do his household chores after your long workday. What you give and what you receive in love.

I think people need to set conditions for those with whom love is reciprocated but I also think that the conditions should be equitable on both sides!