Breaking someone's heart is unfathomable to me. I've had my heart broken a few times and I don't EVER want to give that pain to anyone else. Its a cruel thing to do - to intentionally deceive, mask your true heart then destroy the other person's world by revealing that the truth of your love was really a lie. In cases where you indeed did love them with all your heart then something changed and you were forthcoming at that moment, the heartbreak is still there but the recovery and healing happens sooner than never. The most hurtful thing that someone can do is allow the other person to think that the mutual love still exists and is progressing when clearly it isn't on your part. My thoughts on this is that people should walk along the side of truth in love relationships. The truth will hurt like hell but the revelation to the other person that your feelings for them are different - no longer the potent love that it once was - it will be the best thing that you can do. The truth will set you free from lying and deepening the wound to their heart and yours.
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